Years ago, I went off the road in icy conditions. As happens for most of us who get ourselves stuck, I had to call for help. Sometimes someone else has the solution. We just need to seek that person out. Only when the tow truck showed up with the right equipment was I able to get out and continue my journey (a little wiser). Note, more often than not you will need the help of others directly or indirectly to get unstuck. I leanrned never be too proud, humble yourself, and ask for help.
Similarly in our lives, getting stuck may feel like an eternity. It is indeed a period of great learning and great reflection and meditation on how our choices, have led us to where we are. So what new perspective have you gained during the periods of being stuck? Now consider, how valuable has that perspective been in your future thereafter?
I call it the 3C's. we crave Certainty, we create Comfort, which Causes Complacency.....And what we need to move out of this or to GET UNSTUCK is a Catalyst to create change and followed through with Courage and Commitment....The 3C's defeated by another 3C's....Get Unstuck.